Friday, December 23, 2016

New family addition, Yule, compliments are scary, and snow.


Meet Thorin Oakenshield. He is a 4 month old orange tabby we adopted from Partners For Pets and it seems he was runt of the litter. We don't mind, he's wonderful. He is also very soft, sweet, and cuddly and I love his coloring.  Our friend Chris, who volunteers at the rescue, helped us with his adoption fee as part of our Yule/Christmas present. It is always a little difficult going into the shelter because there are so many great kitties there that I just want to wrap up in a blanket and bring home. However, I do love that this place is a true no kill shelter. In fact they have a cat or two that they've taken off the adoption roster for whatever reason, and those kitties will live out the rest of their lives at the shelter. 


Excuse my sans-makeup appearance. Thorin is quite the little boob man/ shoulder kitty. He loves to curl up in your face. However, he is afraid of my sewing machine. Poor thing trembles when its going. He will get used to it, or I will put him in a safe place with his blanket and toys when I need to use it again. 

It is snowing here again today and I love it. 

We had a really awesome Yule. Amanda and I went to our friends J and L's house where it was packed full of new and familiar faces. It was good to catch up with people I hadn't seen in awhile and make new friends. But it was so crowded in the house that I spent most of my time outside by the fire pits. There were two under the pavilion/ tent J had erected. Our friend Dani did the welcoming the baby sun ritual she'd done the year before. I love that ritual! Technology crapped out on her a little bit, but it was still great. Later we had Sumble and honored the Gods, Ancestors, and Folk. That was amazing! J's altar for the Gods was simply beautiful! I will talk a little more about me experience there over on my pagan blog. Anyway, there was delicious home brewed beer and mead, plenty of food, and such pleasant and fun fellowship. But it was fucking cold! Like I said, we spent most of the night outside and despite having a little bit of shelter and two fires, and me wearing two hoodies and a reindeer hide, I was still freezing. But, we made it the whole night, watched the sun rise, and made it home safely. It did take me over an hour to warm up, but it was worth it!

Compliments are really hard for me. They always have been and I'm awkward in receiving them, but also, while I know they are genuine from others, they feel not... right somehow. I expressed as much to Amanda, asking her to deliver some Yule gifts to J, L, Dani, and her husband. She apparently told Dani's husband that I have a hard time accepting compliments and that she is trying to help me with that, so of course I got a little confronted, hugged, and told how great my presents were. I haven't finished everyone who is on my list's gift, but I will share the four I had finished that night. Each one had some homemade soap I'd made earlier in the year. All of the bags are hand embroidered and sewn by me. By the by, knot work is a pain in the ass to do. 


Umbreon for L, because she had a kick ass sexy cosplay as Umbreon and likes anime and Pokemon Go.


Vegvisir for J because he travels a lot and is a leader of his and Dani's husbands Kindred. 


Hugin and Munin for Dani's husband because I know he has some deep conversations and he does a lot on Heathen forums. 


An owl for Dani because I know she likes them, I heard about an experience from a festival she went to, and I think I remembered someone saying that it is her spirit animal. None of the bags are the same size because I haven't decided on a size that I like and some came out smaller than I wanted. It was an experiment and I am learning from it, so that's a bonus for me. Anyway, I have several more to make and am running out of time. Some gifts may have to be sent out or delivered late this year. I miscalculated on how long things would take despite starting at Thanksgiving. 

I'm starting to lose my focus, so I will end here for today. Suffice it to say we have been busy, Amanda's set the kitchen on fire as true to the nick name my Dad gave her, "sparky". We still find the stray piece of glass from the dish that exploded- she forgot to turn off a burner and set a dish of Baklava on it- now and then, despite being really careful to get it all cleaned up. My endless period is also very bad today and I am having trouble staying awake.  Tsuki is also here, so I need to get off my computer. 

Hope everyone had a fantastic Yule and if I don't post again before Christmas, have a happy one! 


8 comments:

  1. Adorable new kitty! Love the picture :)

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  2. very cute kitty. I think we're considering adopting a cat in the new year but we're going to wait until we are full of settled thought

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    1. Thank you! Yeah, getting settled and being sure are good things. We spent awhile thinking it over.

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  3. I'm so glad you adopted another furry baby! I love the picture with him in your face. What does Narcissa think about it all?
    Merry Yule!

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    1. Merry Yule! I am glad we adopted him too, he's super cute and quite the little cuddle bug, which is something that I really needed. Narcisa likes to be petted and occasionally cuddled, but she's not really a lap kitty. Narcisa didn't like him at first, but she's warming up to him nicely. They play a lot and there have been nose kisses and tentative bathing between them.

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  4. I love the photo of you with your new kitty, it looks like you're going to be very happy together! I can totally relate to being uncomfortable with compliments, it does take some practice but now I just take a deep breath and saying "thank you" and usually the conversation just moves on. That said, I do have to compliment you on your embroidery, it's just beautiful. A belated Happy Yule!

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    1. Thank you so much! I still have a lot to do. I am very happy with the kitty and would be even happier if his big sister would get to feeling better and stop being such a cranky girl. LOL.

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